Saturday......yay i think....

I was going to...actually did take several stabs at finishing last fridays post. I kept ending dark and I didn't want it to, so I'm leaving it be for now. It is what it is...and thats good enough. Some of you have asked questions and offered hugs, for the hugs...I thank you all, for the questions...I think it's time now to make some things clear. While it's true, my wife and I have chosen to divorce...there is no bad person in this. I really don't know how we got here, don't think she does either......but this is where we are. There is no smoking gun,,,,,,,,,no illicit affair, no abuse, no drama that level......all we have here is two people who believed they loved, all their heart,,,and couldn't keep it together. For those that would cuss either of us, back off. I'm human and hurt...if I choose to cuss her about our marriage...my right, but not yours. She is human and hurt, if she chooses to cuss me, her right...not yours. We may well be parting ways, but I will always love her. I need no gossip....I need no rumours..we are way past that, and it's still my wife you are talking about. And I'll still feel that way.....even when I take off the ring.